Church funeral
For the church, a funeral is a ceremony that provides spiritual cleansing and assistance for the deceased, while also showing respect and offering comfort to the bereaved. A church funeral is usually chosen by believers, often being the direct wish of the deceased. However, it can also be a decision made by their closest relatives who are arranging the funeral. Practically speaking, the relatives of the deceased wishing for a church funeral should first contact the appropriate church where they want the ceremony to be held. It is necessary to schedule a suitable time with the local priest before coordinating with a funeral service.
A church funeral typically begins with a ceremony in a church or chapel chosen by the bereaved. Family, friends, and mourners gather around the coffin to bid a final farewell to the deceased. The ceremony in the church is usually accompanied by a mass led by a priest, though a church funeral can also occur without a mass. Most priests allow the family to participate in the ceremony by including personal passages from the deceased’s life during the service. Organ music is often part of the mass.
Following the church ceremony, there is usually a procession or drive with the coffin to a selected cemetery. Here, the coffin is placed in the designated grave while prayers are recited by the priest. Church funerals traditionally involve interring the coffin in the ground. At one time, cremation was not permissible. Nowadays, it is an available option associated with a church ceremony. Cremation can follow the church service instead of burial, and the urn can then be placed in a chosen location, possibly with the participation of a priest.
A church funeral may also include a requiem mass, typically held after the coffin or urn is laid to rest. This traditional form of mass expresses the love of the bereaved for their departed loved one. Believers consider this a way to help the deceased's soul reach heaven.